Why Being in a Codependent Relationship Just Ain't It..

Codependent Relationships are basically an unhealthy emotional attachment someone can have to another. It can be an ongoing cycle of you taking care of the other persons needs before your very own. This come from a form of people pleasing if this is something they already do. This can lead someone to have a lack of boundaries, low self-esteem, and an inability to make decisions without the others approval. Which can also cause someone to walk on eggshells around the other. If you ever watched me on my Youtube Channel, you'll hear me use the term "Soul Drainer" this is a prime example of a person who is seriously co-dependent. Someone can also make another Co-dependent to another and this common amongst DV relationships. This is also common within families where there can be addiction or mental health issues present, as well in connections that are platonic or not. These types of relationships can be very draining, this can be financially wise or mentally/emotionally.

Abandonment is a cause for this to happen within people. Someone who could of had no parent/single parent households can develop these issues later on in their lives and not even know it. It is best to get to know the person you are getting to a connection with. Understanding their background can give you a better understanding of who they are. You can detect some of the problems you will be facing later on. If you are dating someone who shows serious codependency issues, pls refer them to therapy. They need to be willing to get their problems on their own.

How to detect a co dependent relationship Here are some signs of a codependent relationship:

• Feeling responsible for your partner's happiness and well-being

• Neglecting your own needs to prioritize your partner's

• Fear of abandonment and being alone

• Difficulty making decisions without your partner's input or approval

• Feeling trapped or unable to leave the relationship

• Enabling your partner's unhealthy behavior or addictions

• Feeling guilty or ashamed about the relationship

• Tolerating or accepting mistreatment from your partner

If you are dating someone who shows serious codependency issues, ask them to seek professional help or counseling. If this is you, it’s time for you to heal your past trauma.